Matthew 5:29 (The Message)
"Let's not pretend this is easier than it really is. If you want to live a morally pure life, here's what you have to do: You have to blind your right eye the moment you catch it in a lustful leer. You have to choose to live one-eyed or else be dumped on a moral trash pile."
Here's the truth of the matter. We have been set free from this "instinct" that makes us feel like we have to visually absorb every image of female skin that is presented for our enjoyment. Thankfully, we are not required to mutilate ourselves because of lust, but Jesus' message is clear that it would be better to be mutilated than to continue to be a slave to lust and miss the better, more fulfilling life that God has called us to live.
I have a very hard time living up to the standard of Jesus on this one. I enjoy those images. As one (of many I know) who has struggled with pornography addiction in the past, we are constantly bombarded by businesses selling us some sexualized image to push a product, service, or way of life. I have to literally look the opposite way when I go to a mall now to keep from staring at the window of Victoria's Secret while I walk along with my wife and sons.
I like those images because they promise sexual fulfillment with none of the responsibility that comes with sex. There is no covenant relationship required with a picture. There is no listening and empathizing required with a picture. There are no children produced from looking at a picture. We simply get the momentary high that comes from seeing a naked woman whose eyes and pose tell me that she wants me more than anything else in the world regardless of what I think, feel, or believe.
Yet, the reality of the Kingdom is that we are not slaves to those sexual images! Jesus death and resurrection set us free from looking at those pictures in a primal, lustful way to get some sort of momentary fix or fulfillment.
Not only have you been set free from slavery to those thoughts and images men, but those women have been set free as well. Those precious daughters of Almighty God have been set free from that lifestyle. Even the "supermodels" who only pose for tasteful, socially acceptable publications have been set free. All they have to do is accept the truth that they are beautiful because of what God can do through them rather than what a photo shoot makes them appear to be.
I'll say this again men. You have been set free from the slavery of lust!!! Praise Jesus for his obedience to God's plan to die on the cross so you would no longer be a slave to lust! You can live your life to the higher standard of Jesus by understanding that a daughter of God is in that picture, not a nameless, emotionless person who exists to provide you with an empty, momentary pleasure (that you have to finish yourself to be blunt). Praise God for the higher standard that exists for us to live up to so that we do not have to constantly hunt for our next lust fix. We are free from the bondage of lust and can pour ourselves fully into a purpose that is greater than ourselves.
God, please show us what your purpose is for our lives! Help us to live up to your higher standards and get away from our old mindset of obeying a list of rules. Help us see that by fully accepting your salvation and the responsibility that comes with it, we will naturally want to live better. Thank you Jesus for your obedience to the plan of salvation and dying for us so that we can be set free from lust. Help us to glorify you in the way we view, interact with, and think about your daughters.
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